my name is spencer. i’m 22, gay, a scorpio, and over six feet tall. i guess i could say i’m nothing special, but i don’t honestly think that’s true. i just see myself as unique in ways that other people generally don’t agree with. if you’d like to see what i look like, click here, or if you want to ask me anything, feel free to do so here. i’m usually pretty quiet, but i almost always have something to say in the back of my mind. i suppose that’s partly what this blog is for.Tumblr (3.0; @excessisthenewmoderation)http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7dc7c4b1f4e96589c4bbbd5eea78a841/tumblr_momtx3GaYa1qcb58yo1_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f0dc8c4ce6c8f34dd8d3a3f807bdebb8/tumblr_momtx3GaYa1qcb58yo2_500.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53403432802http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53403432802Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:40:49 -0400silver linings playbookjennifer lawrencebradley cooper<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/29eb3390a120546c5d5b04fd710cecdc/tumblr_mnya9rz5cN1qawznlo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53370651032http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53370651032Wed, 19 Jun 2013 13:45:36 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fb852f5d4ff2b56e507c145baab42fa2/tumblr_mimvkeWzvD1qjnhqgo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://goldenclitoris.tumblr.com/post/43865569281/rare-endangerd-species">goldenclitoris</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>rare endangered species</p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53366814423http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53366814423Wed, 19 Jun 2013 12:44:44 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e31bce52e0c450f1469154c912d919d4/tumblr_mnlfnlGX8A1qi5ybvo2_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/65bde7e618a5665a15dce5c410ccd868/tumblr_mnlfnlGX8A1qi5ybvo3_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/3f6f4bff682073b1031a915cb53f1a09/tumblr_mnlfnlGX8A1qi5ybvo1_500.png"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thedagoblanco.tumblr.com/post/53327349806">thedagoblanco</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lionnakedonthefloor.tumblr.com/post/52873977932/jarelion-twenty-five-things-you-should-know-about">lionnakedonthefloor</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Jarelion: Twenty-Five Things You Should Know About Being A Gay Man Before You Decide To Be One by Ryan O’Connell for Hello Mr. Magazine</p> <p>This is the most honest thing I’ve read in a long while.</p> </blockquote> <p>HONESTY.</p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53339595917http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53339595917Wed, 19 Jun 2013 01:41:24 -0400““I’m sorry you were not truly loved and that it made you cruel.””<br/><br/> - <em><a href="http://warsanshire.tumblr.com/">Warsan Shire</a> (via <a href="http://glorious--headfuck.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog">glorious—headfuck</a>)</em>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53334716396http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53334716396Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:20:19 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1f6dec62c66c980df0aa22662a03ccbd/tumblr_miw4rkG86P1qf0u3po1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53313529084http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53313529084Tue, 18 Jun 2013 19:19:22 -0400<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://castielisamonkeyslut.tumblr.com/post/39446926843/eridanschoicehalf-mathmaticalkrillbits">castielisamonkeyslut</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://eridanschoicehalf.tumblr.com/post/39445133281">eridanschoicehalf</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://mathmaticalkrillbits.tumblr.com/post/39444300541/ukeking-puberty-either-makes-you-a-hot-god-or-a">mathmaticalkrillbits</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ukeking.tumblr.com/post/39437527538/puberty-either-makes-you-a-hot-god-or-a-potato">ukeking</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>puberty either makes you a hot god or a potato</p> </blockquote> <p>What if it makes you a hot potato</p> </blockquote> <p>you’d get passed around from person to person with everyone hoping they don’t get stuck with you</p> </blockquote> <p>that’s actually so accurate i’m going to cry</p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53309849844http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53309849844Tue, 18 Jun 2013 18:26:38 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3sglj53y01qcaq4xo1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://www.thefucomics.com/post/53287569204/laughingnancy-laughing-nancy">thefuuuucomics</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://laughingnancy.tumblr.com/post/24858672558/laughing-nancy-laughing-nancy">laughingnancy</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://laughing-nancy.tumblr.com/post/24309351860/laughing-nancy-laughing-nancy-oh-my-god">laughing-nancy</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://laughing-nancy.tumblr.com/post/24240559356/laughing-nancy-oh-my-god-this-is-the-same">laughing-nancy</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://laughing-nancy.tumblr.com/post/24091532957/oh-my-god-this-is-the-same-girl-who-posted">laughing-nancy</a>:</p> <blockquote> <blockquote> <blockquote> <p><br/>OH MY GOD THIS IS THE SAME GIRL WHO POSTED</p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3z6yyRPuE1qbfrsj.jpg"/></p> </blockquote> <p><img alt="image" src="http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ozpu55QK1qj5gwj.png"/></p> </blockquote> <p>IM ADDING TO TEH PRICELESS STATUSES </p> <p><img alt="image" height="195" src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4tgbhUcOX1qdhmcpo1_500.png" width="441"/></p> </blockquote> <p><img alt="image" height="232" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4owe8slbU1rw1dypo1_500.png" width="500"/></p> <p><img alt="image" src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4tcd3v9Wz1r3t36co1_500.png"/></p> <p>her statuses :’D </p> </blockquote> <p><img alt="image" height="232" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4owe8slbU1rw1dypo1_500.png" width="500"/></p> <p><img alt="image" height="237" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m50sj6vaIt1r2wh7co1_500.png" width="500"/></p> <p><img alt="image" height="266" src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4p64sFZT41r2jyczo1_r1_500.png" width="407"/></p> <p>I will always add to this</p> </blockquote> <p><img alt="image" height="294" src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5emlu51eQ1r0prr6o1_500.png" width="413"/></p> </blockquote> <div>QUEEN OF SASS</div> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53305053737http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53305053737Tue, 18 Jun 2013 17:21:37 -0400<a href="http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/why-are-gay-men-so-afraid-of-themselves/">Why Are Gay Men So Afraid Of Themselves?</a>: <p><blockquote class="link_og_blockquote">We compartmentalize ourselves into groups — masc., fem, top, bottom, verse, twink, bears, otters because it’s no longer enough for us to be human and homosexual.</blockquote></p>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53304372876http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53304372876Tue, 18 Jun 2013 17:12:22 -0400i feel thisgaymenhomosexual“You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend, or a new acquaintance — you don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings, ignores your boundaries, and continues to treat you in a harmful way, they need to go.”<br/><br/> - <em>Daniell Koepke  (via <a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thewastedgeneration.tumblr.com/">thewastedgeneration</a>)</em>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53304070457http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53304070457Tue, 18 Jun 2013 17:08:18 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c257b902d8d41dcf003e64790e175222/tumblr_mhsbpmaxk61rg4oqro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://beyonseh.tumblr.com/post/42551914655/i-cant-decide-which-ones-me">beyonseh</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>i can’t decide which one’s me</p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53283188667http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53283188667Tue, 18 Jun 2013 12:05:25 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e06e6642becfd32b2c95749ade0a4980/tumblr_mo5dz2Wo5f1qglhc3o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53249013126http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53249013126Mon, 17 Jun 2013 23:19:23 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e76275fd03d28396cf8467e267d1f55e/tumblr_mob3xsfeBJ1spey9uo1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://fuckyeawillam.tumblr.com/post/53236671195/be-more-like-us">fuckyeawillam</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><small><em>Be more like us</em></small></p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53245280574http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53245280574Mon, 17 Jun 2013 22:28:10 -0400<iframe width="400" height="225" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ZbX0D_oI8EE?wmode=transparent&autohide=1&egm=0&hd=1&iv_load_policy=3&modestbranding=1&rel=0&showinfo=0&showsearch=0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://byrongraffiti.tumblr.com/post/53164751618/if-attending-a-beyonce-concert-and-she-puts-the">byrongraffiti</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>If attending a Beyonce concert and she puts the mic to you, you better do exactly what the fuck he did in this video.</p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53207701120http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53207701120Mon, 17 Jun 2013 13:44:32 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1ef7a5a162a3873e37a16d30b7a57470/tumblr_mf79gfyFBy1riyibio1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53185290786http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53185290786Mon, 17 Jun 2013 05:35:11 -0400<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://kieradoe.tumblr.com/post/53172058679">kieradoe</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://brella.tumblr.com/post/53129938195/tragic-backstories-explain-bad-deeds-but-they-do">brella</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>tragic backstories explain bad deeds but they do not excuse them</p> <ul><li><strong><em>tragic backstories explain bad deeds but they do not excuse them</em></strong></li> </ul></blockquote> <p>THANK YOU, <em>THANK YOU</em></p> </blockquote>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53180645577http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53180645577Mon, 17 Jun 2013 03:16:23 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lwhud3hngK1qg8pvso1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53170971697http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53170971697Mon, 17 Jun 2013 00:21:32 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6201280bf1cc4cb3423c044b6140414e/tumblr_moeub8dRnG1qb6n1fo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53146704846http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53146704846Sun, 16 Jun 2013 18:40:30 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1yfgaBftz1qdqv28o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53139836491http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53139836491Sun, 16 Jun 2013 17:06:20 -0400Me: oh thats cute<br /> : *checks price tag*<br /> Me: no its not <br /> http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53139698459http://excessisthenewmoderation.tumblr.com/post/53139698459Sun, 16 Jun 2013 17:04:28 -0400